Wow

This is tough though....

He could be going through a lot that you don't know about.

He may be hiding his anger from you.

Something may be bothering or eating him up and he just doesn't know how to say it.

You said you've tried to talk to him but he responds sharply.

I think the best thing to do is to change your tactics.

I don't know what you've been doing before but you need to change your approach.

This is deep though and may require perhaps a therapist or coach or something like that sha...lol.... To guide you through.

I have lots to say though but since this is an open source project, I'm limited to only say what could be said in the open.

I'm open though, for more talks