The Difference Between Falling In Love and Fancy Fancy

in #relationship7 years ago


Love. Who knows when he will come and when he will leave? Unmarked and unconditional sometimes the feeling bursts from inside your heart. Whether it's the first sight, the old touch, and the feeling of having the same feelings.

Unfortunately, we have been too long to generalize "love" with just a "crush". Yes, you are crazy about him - but what is love? You are eager to have it so does he want you, but what is it you deserve to call it love? To know what the difference between love with a crush, crazy or just the first passion of things that Hipwee will expose this:

Love grows with time while the crush happens in an instant time

Love does not come suddenly into your mind. It grows slowly, develops constantly, until it unknowingly begins to grow in your heart. Without your coercion, his face becomes more often flashed in your mind when you close your eyes. Her little needs are things you want to keep trying to keep.

Even if you call it love at first sight. If it really is love, then it should continue to grow rather than come and then disappear with time.

Love takes time to grow while crazy love due to a crush happens as soon as you can see someone, then just disappear.

A strong love can last for a long time, the crush is equally strong but will not last long

In addition to the emergence and growth that takes time, love is also able to survive for a very long time. For some couples, their love can even survive until the end of life to say hello. In such a long time, the meaning of love becomes deeper and has power for those who believe it.

While the crush also has power for those involved, but the love that arises from a little crush that has a chance to last long. Feelings that are just a crush usually marked by the increasingly diminished interest after a long time together. Like a balloon, true love is a balloon filled with helium gas. The crush is a normal gas balloon that will deflate in a matter of hours.

In love nothing is perfect, while people who only have a crush just crazy about perfection

Someone who loves you will accept you as an imperfect person. To love someone is to let the person you love to be who you are, what it is without pretending. In the presence of the person who loves you you also feel comfortable to be yourself without any pressure to be a flawless figure.

While the feeling of a crush and infatuation precisely makes a pair of humans thirst on perfection. Long before you find the person, you first determine what kind of 'love' is ideal for you. In front of you you only show the good side of yourself. You are trying to be the perfect person, while continuing to hope he can also be a couple that match the ideal picture that has been pictured in mind.

Love is more than just physical attraction, unlike the passion that focuses on the physical relationship


For people who love each other, their feelings are not just about holding hands, hugging and so on. Their feelings are more meaningful, whether physical touch is not a problem.

While for those who are just crazy about lust, physical contact is everything. As if love is valid only if the skin is touching each other.

Love can strengthen you when crazy just makes you tired

If it's love it should give you energy, strengthen your spirits to live your life. Helping you stand when you fall, reminding you to keep your head down when it's too cocky.

It's not the love of his name if that strong feeling actually makes you physically and mentally exhausted. Not love his name if your energy runs out just for the sake of taking care of all the stuff. It is true that love takes effort, but if the effort only comes from one party and is destructive, it is not the love of his name

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