How to get a girlfriend if you are shy? Dating tips for shy guys!

cptn.naresh (55)in #relationship • 7 years ago

Shy guys can date. And you may not even know for a fact that you are extremely good at it. Loyal, Considerate, Caring, Patient, and Thoughtful- these are the qualities that instantly attracts a girl towards you and you must be born with these amazing innate qualities!

Here are some tips for you to make your uniqueness pop while you are out and about looking for a girlfriend.

1.Show Off What You Got.

Being confident may not be your strongest area of expertise to get a girlfriend, but you can make up for it by showing her other attractive traits that you might have- like dancing, singing, or if you think you aren't good at anything, go out there and learn something that you can show off to her. Girls love guys who are different, and there is no better way to get a girl than showing off what you can do that the others can't.

2.Turn Your 'Cuteness' On!

You’re telling me that you’ve never been cute in your life? I get it. You've been talking to the mirror (a lot), haven't you? That's the last thing you want to turn to for some good ol' dating advice. Trust me, a mirror is capable of making you feel less attractive the more you stare into it! (Never did good to nobody)

So, how do you get 'cute' when you know for a fact that the last time anybody called you 'cute' was when you were a baby. Cuteness here isn't about your appearance but it is all about you doing the things that others wouldn't and also, expressing yourself in subtle ways like you always do- like smiling often, for example, can get the girl to notice you. Do not fidget when you get the chance to talk to her or avert your gaze often.

3.Get Active On Social Media.

I have seen people giving advice to avoid getting involved in building an online persona. But the best thing for you - as a guy who wants to get noticed, social media can be your best friend that can act as an intermediary to get the girl you want to date.

Make an effort to make your online presence known (create a blog or a website if you can) and just get yourself out there in the virtual world, something that you may find it hard (and exhausting sometimes) to do it in the real world.

4.Show That You Are Independent.

Girls notice when you are going around, earphones plugged into your ears and just being that cool guy who seems satisfied being in his own company. They may even perceive you as smart and intelligent, and are sure to have you in their ’'guys-I-would-date' list!

Being independent doesn't mean you have to keep yourself away from your friends all the time, instead, it means that even if your shyness gets the better of you most of the time, you keep calm, keep the atmosphere casual without breaking into a sweat or fretting about what others might think about you. If you can do all of these- especially when she's around, who knows, she could even come up to you and say 'hi!' (It's a possibility. If she does that, believe when I say that your level of attractiveness is very high.)

5.Wear Your Awkwardness On Your Sleeve.

What? Before you throw a tomato at me, just hear this awesome piece of dating advice! Awkward is the new 'fun guy' to hang out with in town. While you may have been looking at it as an imperfection or even as a personal handicap that repels people from you, others have been looking it through the humor lens!

Making a girl laugh is the best thing to do to get her to date you. And what better way to do it than be yourself- embracing all the awkward things that you do, laughing at your own silliness, and just having a good time. It's one of the most attractive traits for shy guys to have. So, master it today and laugh your shyness away.

Shyness is often looked down upon by the 'Non-Shy' peers. Though it may be intimidating at first to step out of your comfort zone and make contact with the girls, if you really have plans to get a girlfriend then initiate something, anything without over-analyzing the situation or wondering what she might think about you. Do not pretend to be someone you are not. Embrace everything that you are and you just might be that goofy, silly, awkward guy who lands the most popular girl!