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RE: Miss. Opinionated : Nice Guys Finish Last
I've been happily married to a nice guy for 16 years and wouldn't have it any other way. Nice doesn't mean wimpy or beta. To me it means respect and kindness. I've had my share of men whose need to assert dominance came up in all sorts of unwelcome and inappropriate ways. While my husband is no pushover, we negotiate our needs with love. I'm ruined for anyone else, basically.
I'm really happy for you! I think the take home message isn't whether the guy is by all measures too nice or not, rather acts true to himself and behaves sincerely.