8 Signs She Likes You (Not Just Being Friendly)

Just like you can tell you friend likes you if they're flirty, you can also tell that a crush likes you just by the way they talk.

One way to tell is how they interact with you. If they're very warm, friendly, and confiding, it's pretty obvious that they like you.

If they're just trying to get to know you, they could be into you or they might just be good at making conversation. (Can't think of any good pickup lines for that, though. Make some, we'll eat 'em up.)

Here are 8 good signs that a crush likes you.

1. They start to tell you all the time about themselves

This is a huge sign that they're into you. I remember one guy in college who would talk about what he was listening to on the radio or what food he ate for lunch every day in class.

2. They want to take you out and get to know you better

Maybe they've asked for your number or asked you to hang out. In some cases, you might even hear them say that they want to get to know you better.

3. They give you gifts

Now this one's a bit tricky, but it's not unheard of to hear of people who get cute presents for other people. If someone starts giving you thoughtful gifts, it's pretty likely that they like you. (Maybe you're just the perfect Christmas gift!)

4. They take you out to do things that you might not do with a friend

Whether it's going to the movies, an arcade, or bowling, they seem more interested in spending time with you than with a random friend. In a case like this, it's pretty obvious that they have a crush on you.

5. They say things like, "You are so cool!" or, "You're just so cool!"

They also love talking about other people, especially if it's something you don't like to talk about. This is a sign that they like you.

6. They don't talk about other girls or guys around you

It's pretty typical for someone who likes you to talk about you with other people. If they have nothing to talk about, they just like to tell you about themselves.

7. You can talk about them as well

The key here is to not talk about other people that aren't in the picture. You don't want to look desperate or like you're obsessed with the idea of getting them to like you.

8. You find yourself thinking about them

Of course you have. It's not possible to think of anything else.

Now that we've gotten the "in like" signs down, the "out like" signs can help you decide how you want to proceed.

You can either go after them or not. If you do, you'll have to follow their lead.

If they aren't into you, then there's no point in trying to pursue them or keep the conversation going. All you'll be doing is trying to make them think you're worth their time and they probably aren't.

If they are into you, though, keep your cool and not be pushy. Use subtle flirting to try and get them to like you.