Values, Norms and Behavior | Your Ex

This is a delusion idea that people have to hang out with him or her again. I'm talking from the perspective that you ended the relationship. What you'll notice is that you'll have certain advantages over other people in way of communication. You know the deep things in mind. Which is a good thing that you knew him or her well, that means there was some trust there. People don't change from a core, most of the time this is why it was ended in the first place. We're talking about Values, norms, and behavior.

Behavior can be changed easily. From day to day people change all the time, the internet gives us a lot of opportunities and as we get older are days change as well. Norms are difficult because this has to do with your environment and changing that is scary. It's not easy to say ''Bye'' to your work, friends, hobby or education. Values never change. This has to do with connection.
Things that are important to you. It determines your happiness as well. Before you decide you hang out with this person think in the back of your head of their values. Then you'll see through the act that's happing in front of you.

The Lesson here is to really look for somebody that's in line with you. As you grow you'll need somebody stimulates you and helps grow even more. Don't worry about being alone, but be out there looking. Try to find out what their values are before they're affecting your life in a positive or negative way. If you are in line with yourself, you're positive and attractive.

"He who seeks, will find"