The deception of the working people: the theory of lies ...

To begin with, perhaps it follows that in a real world habitual to us, a person can exist at once in two realities: real and imaginary. At what the actual reality is in some sense important for each person, but it is not so popular - you will agree, because in the imaginary world it is much more interesting to live.

But it is from these most illusory edges of an imaginary reality that all the troubles and joys of life appear: creativity and crises, love and jealousy, truth and deception. And from reality we are interested only in food and weather ...

No shame or conscience

This is how it is customary to speak in society about those people who were caught in lies. And after such words accusations, insults and other muckings usually follow .... But condemning others, people often forget about themselves, because each of us lies to himself and to others almost every day. But if a lie is such a bad thing, why do we always use it?

I think many will agree with me, if I say that basically people use lies in order to get their benefits or some kind of pleasure. After all, it is about this that our brain thinks at a time when we want to lie in something or deceive someone. And then a person in every way convinces himself that he is doing the right thing - "The benefit is more important than the consequences."

In order to achieve something or achieve something really worthwhile - you need to spend a lot of time, you need patience and knowledge, etc. Therefore, sometimes it is much more profitable to lie and get all the benefits immediately, without thinking about the consequences. Counting on the fact that all the consequences will be later - as with a loan.

So when you see how a driver stops by the stern guard of the law, he swears that he did not take a drop in your mouth, you are not surprised at all - in this case a person tries to defend his own material interests .... Or when you see how an awkward sharper drops a deck for everyone eyes and innocently asks which picture is better - you also understand with what purpose it does it.

          

Such scenes can occur to us almost every day, but only under completely different circumstances. And she does not need to be surprised at all, because a large progressive part of humanity is lying for the sake of achieving some goal.

Lying can be aggressive: "Now I will make you a creature of this kind with me to reckon with." Maybe fluffy: "Oh, if only Mommy did not worry." Caught unawares: "And how can these people understand me correctly?". And completely pathetic: "Let them all think that I'm all right."

It is the lie that first comes to mind and flies from our lips like a winged butterfly, when the truth turns out to be too heavy, shameful for scoring or simply terrible.

With no exceptions

Lies absolutely everything and everyone, and regularly: men, women, children .... And if you heard someone say "Yes, I never lie" - do not doubt, this is certainly a lie. But nevertheless, each person lies differently, or simply speaking, depending on the situation. In other words - a single-type scheme of lies, which every person could use absolutely, simply does not exist. Although there is a separate case - it's children ....

Strange as it may seem, children, unlike adults, are much more sincere, so it's much easier to see their lies. But with adults it's not so simple ... Men, for example, in most cases, lie intentionally, less often - depending on the situation. And women - in a firm belief that the half-truth is "almost true", but in no way a lie.

But no matter how much we talk about lies, as a rule life presents it is not always as desired, and therefore it is impossible to protect ourselves completely from lying - "Except for the case, if all people stop lying to themselves and others that in principle is also impossible. "

Therefore, the use of various methods of recognizing lies on absolutely every person, in reality, is practically useless - "when you see a person for the first time, what do you know about him?" Virtually nothing .... So first you need to get to know a person more closely, learn his habits, habits and only then closely monitor his gaze, emotions and gestures - "Ignoring this simple rule, it is very easy to make mistakes" .

               

But in reality when talking with a person, we forget about it, because all our attention is paid to the interlocutor. And if a person succeeds in placing himself in relation to you, then we forget about lies - "We knock our own consciousness with something heavy, wringing our hands and inspiring ourselves with something not true, but at the same time desired."

Sometimes our consciousness probably understands that they are trying to deceive him. But at the same time it for some reason or other does nothing - "By myself I know, sometimes I just believe everything".

Man is his own enemy

Yes, that's exactly it ..... because the lie though not the best phenomenon in our world, but not so rare that it would not be heard or used. Although we do not notice it ourselves, we want it or not, but we use it almost every day.

And it can begin with an elementary phrase: "Good morning" - "What the hell is it good for?" Seven o'clock in the morning, the neighbors woke up with their repairs, and even the rain on the street ... "And to end, of course, even more lies.

But if there were no lies in our world, then without it and its diversity, we would simply not be able to interact with each other. After all, the consciousness that did not know the lie can be considered undeveloped and inhuman - because today only a vaccinated person is able to orient himself in this world.

No matter how insulting this may sound, sometimes even the most absurd lie has a full right to exist.

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