I don't agree that because you treat them like tiny adults, you're not good with kids.

You might not like having to deal with kids in today's society, because they've been raised by jackals.

We have 2 well adjusted kids who do well in their public schools, in spite of them being in public schools, and we've always treated them like we would treat adults.

The problem is that most adults behave like they're still little kids.

They treat parenthood like buying a new car or a new smartphone.

It's not, it's a long term commitment and responsibility.

Selfish, lazy, ignorant parents raise selfish lazy, ignorant kids.

Recognizing that there are aspects to your behavior that could be better is the first step in changing.