Psychology; How To Read Someone's Mind

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To read other people's minds, the easiest thing to do is to try to keep control of everything around you. Starting from the environment, the topic of conversation, to your speech position.

To better understand the other person and read his mind, try to change the things you control. For example, changing the subject, changing the sitting position, suggesting new things, and so forth. If the person looks enthusiastic then he wants to leave his current condition. On the contrary, if he seems reluctant and hesitant, then that means he prefers his situation now.

When communicating in two directions, we have to look in detail is the tone of speech, volume changes and the tempo in the tone of speech indicates many things. A voice that slowly slowed down indicated that the person was saying something important to him. When the pace of someone's speech slows down, he expects you to listen carefully.

People who lie usually also talks with a spittle, in a faster tempo and followed by the addition of volume. Notice also the way he speaks, whether in it there are signs of boredom or doubt.

At face-to-face or face-to-face contact of the other person, facial expressions are the easiest to read. When someone is bright-faced, it can be interpreted that he was feeling lonely. If he looks moody, chances are he is having a problem.

Your name should also be aware that facial expressions are the most easily manipulated by others. One can easily pretend to be happy by making his face look bright and smiling a lot. Therefore, you better focus on small movements of the face, such as eyebrows and lips rather than focusing on his overall expression.

When communicating directly, small movements of the other person must also be noticed, as some lying reactions arise accidentally when the lie arises.

There are various small movements you can observe to read other people's thoughts. Movement touching the hair with the palm of the hand in the middle of a conversation indicates someone likes you. But if this movement is followed by raised eyebrows, the person is not agreeing with the opinion you expressed, but is not interested in saying it.

Some people also do things like biting a nail, playing with her hair, or wiggling her body whenever feeling nervous or nervous. This is a sign that you should try to make it feel more comfortable.

And one more thing that we must pay attention to read other people's mind through communication, that is expression of eye or eye movement from the other person.

Expression and eye movement is the body language most often used to detect the characteristics of people lying. Eyes that do not dare to look directly into the eyes of others is a strong indication that the person is lying. An enlarged pupil (black part) indicates that the person is interested in the topic you are talking about.

The eye pointing down indicates a sense of discomfort, whether it is shame, low self-esteem, or even anger. If someone keeps turning his eyes down while talking to you, try to analyze the cause, and melt the atmosphere by changing the subject, or by talking about the things he or she loves.

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