Good write up. I think extreme ownership of ones life (also an idea) is the way to go because of what you said.

Basically taking extreme responsibility of anything in your life. It's you who is responsible and only you who has any power in your life.

I do wonder if that view of mine though is a luxury of my current place in life. Either way I find it to be the most productive for my life because then in an undesirable situation I can't blame anything on anything and therefore have to think about how I can change it (usually with thought, way of thinking framing, first).