Prisoner of a hidden dominator

There are people who, no matter what in essence are strong and able to live and perform in their lives, they feel an extreme need "to have someone for you," under his rule, in a parallel reality. It would be like this domineering person, had many insecurities about life and needed to have someone available to take those who support and those who receive energy. In parallel reality, this would be a condition in which the dominant "abducts a part of the soul" of the person he wants to and lock in captivity.

If we were to approach this issue in all material respects, it would be to say that a domineering person kidnaps someone and keeps that prisoner person in captivity, leaving her there, at your disposal throughout his life, even as this domineering person goes to the world live your life.

This condition is much more common in the hidden life of people in the hidden dynamics in parallel realities than you can imagine. The most common way that there is, again, is the mother / father condition and children, but the bonds that are created with the mother, often people create more of this type of condition with the mother (or mother figure that replaces) and when they develop and go for life to establish relationships with people, end up recreating this same dynamic with the partner

For convenience, I will use the example of a mother with her child, which is usually the original base that is established for, from this base, more people recreate these same conditions, while maintaining the original relationship of the condition that initiated this conditioning. But if you can not identify this condition between you and your mother (or father) or between you and your child, observe the relationships that had in the past with someone who represented security for you - such as grandparents and uncles, eg - or the person with whom he has a loving relationship and pay attention so you can see if it's someone who imprisons or is someone prisoner. Do not want to be the victim, be humble to identify if you are not one that dominates and imprisons

I will address one of the ways in which this condition occurs, but understand that the same way that a child can entrap his mother in a parallel reality, at the same time, this mother can also "abduct a part of the soul" of this child and keep a prisoner in another parallel reality. Here one imprisons the other. This is a symbiotic condition even worse. I know many people who have their lives stalled because of these hidden conditions living.

A son, dependent emotionally, full of insecurities for life, and other conditions in the interaction with his mother, a hidden dynamic - as an example. the text I wrote:

Emotional Dependency - can also be a great domineering, selfish, they need to have his mother only to him, at his disposal, not only for having fears of life in general, but for wanting this mother devote almost exclusively to him and care for him 'forever'. In his arrogance, this child feels independent and powerful, and prefer to believe that his mother dominates and not the opposite. Here's the big trap of ego, which hides the truth of one person, causing it to find the victim of a domineering mother, when the truth is the reverse of that ...

He then captures a part of the mother's soul and lock in a captive in a parallel reality. This condition can be perceived in a milder form in physical reality, where the mother is not literally a captive where this child is shown even domineering with regard to mother and it requires the presence and attention "24 hours a day." He requires his presence whenever he is at home, whenever he needs it, whenever it needs to call her, he does not support when he does not find it available at any time he wants to talk to her, for whatever reason, to even just to send a text message sharing a commonplace experience that is living.

He wants to have his mother always within his reach, and may have it in times of pain for life situations; or someone in anger, in playing this energy on the mother, to vent; fears; when he needs affection for being too needy etc .. But at times when this child is well and is full of willingness to life, he simply despises this mother, not "remember that it exists," does not care about the good -being her and leaves her there, "abandoned". At one time this child is almost "devouring mother", drawing their attention and energy only for themselves, but at the moment does not need it, leave it alone, but never free from truth. Looking reality in the physical life, this mother is free, but energetically this mother is a prisoner of this child and even when he leaves her alone, she is apathetic and unwilling to do anything, is left with little energy for themselves, after this child sucked deeply.

This child achieves this because his mother has a strong connection with him, for reasons usually from past lives and because of a great emotional need that mother has, even if she does not know it. By their lack of affection and to have affinities with that child, he becomes "everything in this mother's life." So even though this child is domineering, this condition happens only because his mother has a great love or a great obsession with this child. Thus, when this son "really wants his mother" to him, the point of imprisoning her in captivity only to have it for him, this mother feels this intense want that child-which is nothing more than something unhealthy and not love- and that energy comes to her as a strong energy she, distortedly means as energy and love, adding to this, the child receives the appeal of energy in order to move to the mother the message that depends to live. This mother then feels happy with the fact that child to want so much and then almost surrenders to his domineering and will willingly into captivity. Strengthening I'm talking about content that these people live unconsciously, it is not rational decisions and nor is it something that happens in physical life.

This mother, then in her lack of affection, is quietly hidden in captivity waiting for the child whenever he wants. But this mother suffers when the child is well and happy, because he does not need it in this state and leaves. He just needs her like a fool at his disposal with whom you can talk and access all the time when you want. However, it is more intense in his "want the mother" especially when he is ill, sick, suffering or in trouble, then he "runs desperate '' to the mother, not only in this parallel reality, but also in life in matter . In case he was suffering, he paralyzes the mother in the parallel reality, but it resonates in physical life almost "paralyzing" the mother, she is half shuffled in her life, is disturbed or extremely anxious, unable to live her life daily naturally.

This child draws both this mother, who in a more severe state of this condition, if this child is with his stagnant life, empty and meaningless, he is able to make it to be so sucked energy for it, which could lead to his mother to go into depression and panic. All she ever lived quietly and natural in life, at this stage, it becomes no longer bear living. If it was a willing and joyful mother, who was always active and alive, fulfilling their daily duties, making walks and being with people, if the child comes to this point of stagnation, especially if it is for a great fear of life, it can "pull even more from the mother" to him, taking it almost entirely of his own life and then this mother may not want to do anything else in life, it can lose up the will to live.

This may reflect badly in life, in more severe cases, she may lose her job, losing the partner or if she does not have a companion, can become lonely, only to be available to that child at that stage of his life. The more this child is suffering more this mother offers him (and this child requires it), is absent from his own life. This is a very unhealthy both table because it is not this child abduct more of it alone, but it is this mother feel that this child needs it most and almost voluntarily she will giving up his life, just living the " basic ", to be available for that child.

In this situation, this mother will be even more present in the physical life for the child. It may weaken various physical forms, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The mother, being in depression, may stop going out to have fun, even if the child is with friends having fun, he keeps at home because she can not feel like going out (she is powerless to life in matter, because much of their energy is trapped in the bondage of parallel reality), because it needs to be available only for him, giving energy to it and hoping that at any time he may need it.

With this weakening getting worse, this mother, if she feels like going out and do some walking, so think about leaving, just feel a great intensified weakness, even physically, and feel a strong anxiety and depression, and also be able to feel panic at the thought of being in the world. This mother never felt this before in her life, she always wanted to go to the world, to walk and be with people and "out of nothing", begins to panic at the thought of being in the world. This is because the child is holding it more intensely and in addition to extracting the vital energy it to him, also drains her energy so she has no strength to leave because he fears - all unconsciously - that his mother is to the world, it can live very positive experiences, will be very focused on their own lives, "forget it", which will cause the child miss the exclusive attention and energy only to him. He controls it.

He panics only imagine that his mother is no longer at his disposal. But if this child has incentives to live and start living things that are of interest to him, feeling safer, he then let his mother prey in captivity, will leave this mother even will be angry with her and despise, but under no circumstance will release her and return her life to her. He does not know what will happen in his life and will need it, and does not feel safe to live without their mother.

The more this child grows and matures, the more severe the condition may become, as he will be facing many challenges in life, in adulthood, and feels more fear of losing his mother. So the life of his mother, with time, consequently gets worse and it will weaken more and feeling depressed and panicked increasingly, as the life of the child progresses. Depression is also due to the fact that mother begin to feel a deep loneliness that hurts the soul, but not only by loneliness, but mainly because deep down, she knew that is captive and that means that it never can but feel this loneliness, this may never be for her, free to live the truth of life.Even if the mother has a partner that is married to the father of this child, the feeling of loneliness will be stepping into it, precisely because increasingly it abducts a little more of his life for himself, locking it in captivity. If this mother is married, for example, it is there, in his life, with her husband, but at the same time feels absent and isolated, it begins to "feel nothing", not pleasure, not feel like living as before I felt. Even having a companion, this isolation makes you feel lonely, and a deep anguish takes care of her.

If it is a person who is "single", this child will never let his mother have a partner again because he has experienced before, with his father or with other experiences that his mother had (even if he has not been heard), the as her mother engages with the partner and how much power it directs the partner and how much energy it uses for itself when it relates to someone, directing little energy to it, son. So this son takes his mother is single and imprisons more deeply into his captivity, in order to ensure that the mother will never have another partner.He did not want to share his mother with anyone else. If he has siblings, he manipulates everyone to have much more of his mother to him, leaving his brothers' almost orphans "in mother energy. If only son ... this mother will languish energy throughout his life, as more and more that child will want their energy exclusively for him, even if that child is a great professional, are married and have children yet, he will never let go of his mother.

It is the source of life for him. He has conflicting feelings about her, because they feel hate, love, guilt, shame, among others. Despite all this, she is living in his life and he learned to live like this from birth and mature, continue with this context.

Although it appears that this is more like the child in relation to the mother, it is extremely common place with her daughter in relation to her mother. In addition to occur with the father and children as well.

If she is trying to find justifications in his life to understand the reason for anxiety, depression and panic, she probably can not find anything real in her life that justifies it. For the truth of these feelings and deep pain, it is hidden in the unconscious, the reason is the fact that it belongs to the child and increasingly it be stealing more and more of her soul and its life energy to it.

When I answer a person who lives this condition with the mother, to work more deeply this issue, by contacting the consciousness of his son telepathically "hear" things like:. "You're mine, you belong to me I can not live without you. I hate you (there is hatred in this respect), but even so you are the only person in this world who is able to give life to save me, is the only person who makes sacrifices for me, you love me, that is at my disposal so I use the way that is best for me. I'll never release her, I will never leave you free to live your life and forget about me. I can not live without you. Do not ask me to set you free, as this never happen. Do not you see I'm wrong and you need? you will be selfish to think only in you and forget that I need you? "

As always, the cure for this kind of situation begins with the awareness of this reality that occurs between them. If either or both discover these truths, then the healing can begin to occur, since the one who became aware intends to address all the internal challenges that the healing process will entail.

If both live it, it's because this is convenient for both somehow, even if it is absurd. But when it comes to contexts in the human unconscious, everything is absurd. If it is convenient for both, it is because there are shortages and a great fear of losing this condition even to the mother who is a prisoner. But there is no way to end this insane context, without pain in the separation of both. But this is a low price to pay when it comes to freedom of both.

Remember also, that the same situation may occur in reverse, where the mother imprisons his son to him and depend on him emotionally. And also, that this child can recreate the same situation with the partner, not to replace her mother, but to have more than someone else for him.

Explore your unconscious to find out more, just having the intention of this happening, asking your soul to guide this exploration so you can discover other possibilities in this condition may be occurring in your hidden dynamics. Be brave and humble to be prepared to perceptions about you that you may have, if really honest with yourself and if you are prepared to leave the role of victim and discover a great manipulator and dominating could have major advances in its healing. Here is the key to all real cure: take responsibility for your life.