Implosive anger!

"I'll explain something, David.
There are two kinds of irascible people: explosive and implosive.
Explosive is the kind of individual who begins to rant against the cashier who does not accept food stamps.
Implosive is the cashier who remains quiet day after day and finally shoots and makes buckets all ...
You are the cashier. "

(Quote from the film Shock Therapy).

 

What are we talking about?

It seems easy to talk about anger, a feeling that explodes in your  chest and then comes out in screams, aggression, insults and irascible  words.

You see it from the outside, the face becomes purple, magenta, in fact  it is said, not surprisingly red with rage, the veins on the neck swell  and the hands tend to close in fist.

Visible signs of a anger sensation.

But sometimes the anger is not so visible, sometimes it's like a devious beast, it lurks and then explodes all together.

Some of us have normal reactions of anger, sometimes we break out for something that bothers us, an attitude, a bad word too ...

We react to them getting angry right away, cause and effect and we  have little bursts of rage, maybe a scream or a fist banged on the table  or a bad answer.

Shortly thereafter, once the explosion is over and the anger is pulled out, we return ourselves to our common conditions.

Others can not get angry or at least so it seems from outside.

Some of us have difficulty pulling out anger, judging it as an inadequate and shameful reaction.

Rather than get angry, they apologize even when it is not necessary  and they allow themselves to put their feet on their heads in order not  to raise their voices.

They are silent in order not to seem aggressive or angry but this does  not take away the anger from their heart, even for it, remained closed,  it becomes a fertile ground to grow and proliferate.

Anger by not finding way out grows inside and is worse.

At that point the sensation does not have a healthy and liberating  outburst that allows the subject to continue lighter, but has a  devastating effect on the psyche.

The  subject broods and broods in itself angry and bad thoughts, but  continues to keep outside a serene air, while inside it has fire and  flames

 

This  is extremely damaging, first because it will lead to an explosion of  rage much more extreme and potentially dangerous when it will manifest  for some triggering event (even small nonsense), second because to  mature angry feelings leads to a deep dissatisfaction and a great inner  pain.

Pain that grows together with anger and a feeling of impotence in the face of events.

So when we advise someone to "swallow the frog" like we said here, it means eat the Anger and do not scream it, let's think twice, is it always right to "swallow the frog"?

Or sometimes the frog is right to spit in the face of those who put us in a position to defend ourselves?

The  implosive rage is a kind of hidden and dangerous rage, every now and  then we get angry, let's not let it keep it hidden, we do not let it  consume us and eat us, a healthy rage sometimes it takes.

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