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RE: How to preserve self-esteem and improve communication

in #psychology7 years ago

Awesome post brother!! Loved it!!

I struggled with self esteem for a very long time man. It has come to the point that I didn't care anymore. I thought to myself why I should bother caring?

That's the thing though...we are surrounded by people and each and everyday we would compare ourselves with OTHERS. The truth is, as you have already said, everyone is born differently and are raised differently. Our journey is not theirs.

Positive reinforcement. Man! Don't we just LOVE to feel good? Who doesn't. When somebody compliments us (even if they are lying), we just feel amazing even if we don't want to admit it. Some of us are just full of s*** because of this :D This is why we try to avoid loss because it's so painful. The point is to be honest with yourself. Don't get sucked in...BECOME AWARE OF THEM.

Meditation will help with all of this :)

Thank you for sharing this with us man!!

Winny out...for now ;)

PS: I also come from Germany and am currently living in Berlin.

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Hi, and thank you for your kind words :) Yes I also at some time in my life came to the point and thought "F*** what others say or think about you!". And in many situations I still think like that. But now as I'm reading this book and I came across this passage I though "Man this is also true...".

It's always nice to meet people here from Germany. I will follow you up. Are you active on steemit.chat or in the Steemit D-A-CH channel on Discord?

I am active on discord :) I am actually in a group called dtubedaily, but I assume that you don't make videos as far as I looked at your profile or didn't I see it :D Are you planning on making videos any time soon?

Winny out...for now ;)

I haven‘t done before but I surely will try because people rather like to watch or listen than read. I‘m also sometimes to lazy to read extreme long articles :D Is there any chance to join your group?

sure brother :)

what's your name on discord?

Winny out...for now ;)

Same as here liveyourdream ;)

I can't seem to find you, but here's the link to the group
discord.gg/A2XG8Ga

Remember that this group is mainly about making videos daily on dtube, so I really hope that you will also consider doing it and grow with us!! :)

Winny out...for now ;)

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