If you're Going to be Judgemental, Please Keep it to Yourself
It is inevitable that someone is going to do something that you won't agree with. Whether it's them getting piercings or tattoos, feeding their kids fast food, or not going vegan. You will judge someone for something that you frown upon.
Judging is a human thing just like envy, even though they are negative. But we can't help it. What we do with it is what we can help.
You could judge someone all you want for something they are doing that you don't approve. However there is no need to be a jerk about it. That means to keep your judgemental thoughts to yourself.
That's right! As long as there is no harm to anyone else involved, then be decent and stay quiet.
The worst group to judge others are many moms. Plenty of mothers judge other mothers. That's because many mothers don't approve of the way others parent their kids.
However you see a lot less of that kind of judgement with more experienced mothers. We are talking about mothers to teens and adults. They know that kids don't come with instructions and most parents are doing the best they can. The only time again to intervene is if you are strongly suspecting harm is inflicted. Other than that, focus on your business while they do theirs.
We all may judge, and that is fine. But remembered you aren't perfect and you can keep your opinions to yourself. That's if you want to keep a clean reputation.
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How judgmental of being judgmental! :)
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Well said.
Thank you!
Having an opinion and discussing it with someone is one thing, but to just randomly judging someone for what you see . . . Please do not judge a book by it's cover or a person by their face or an animal breed because of misinformation.
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If I find myself judging someone I take it as a hint to reflect on myself. What does that person trigger in me? How do I relate to it? It´s always a chance, at least for me, to learn about myself.