Thank you for posting, this was a great read and video. I'm a nanny who practices positive reinforcement and other gentle methods of discipline. It is always great to read posts like this that show how important it is to encourage communication and not take shots at young and impressionable children. I think the best thing you can do is lead by example! Be kind and treat others with respect and when they act out instead of scolding and spanking it is better to explain what they did wrong and why so they can correct it. I know it works because I've tried. Children generally want to please their parents and caregivers.