Attractive woman: what is it? men's point of view!

Pleased woman

A contented woman is the main tool for motivating a man to achieve. How to become a happy woman?

We must love our lives. Or to build it in such a way as to enjoy it. Love your work to be filled with it, that is, content. Delegate, optimize, change - anything, but you should be happy with your work!

Love your appearance or do something to her to fall in love with her - become beside yourself. Love your environment or change it. A happy woman is kicks from everything, from the color of the walls in her entrance and finishing with food during the holiday.

Grateful woman
An equally important component of an attractive state is gratitude. Simply, right?

Successful men are those men who have a surplus of resources. Anyone! Financial, time, material, communication. A successful man earns much more than he spends. He has an apartment, a car, time, money, connections, etc.

And a successful man is constantly confronted with beggars. At work, he is asked for jobs, salary increases, new projects, assistance and attention. In an environment at it ask advice, money, contacts. In my personal life, short-sighted girls beg him for simple material resources - a restaurant, an iPhone, a dress, a beach. Everyone is asking for something, and some even demand.

And, as you can imagine, this man has developed immunity to such people. He learned to resist the beggars, keeping them at a distance - it is necessary to not profukak their own resources, giving them all asking.

And all successful men intuitively divide people into those who ask and appreciate. Especially it concerns women. And if at the beginning of communication you fall into a group of beggars, then be ready that you are with this man temporarily. Do you know why?

Women's gratitude is an integral element of women's attractiveness. Thank the man: he will help and give gifts. If there is no thanks, then the woman turns into a beggar. Thank and create the desire of the man to share, but do not beg for resources from the position of the victim.

Begin to give the man deserved gratitude for every perfect act, and he will feel that responsibility does not smell of reproaches, but has a higher, unique, victorious taste!
Playful woman
And the final chord that forms the attractive state of a woman is playfulness! Or flirtation, if you like.

At 20, this is all right, but after 30 many women make one very gross mistake - they start communicating with men from the intellect. But with a man you do not need to talk like a man! With a man you have to flirt!

The woman who is capable to create in the man a special status is valuable. A happy woman creates a motivating state for a man? Yes! A grateful woman creates a special state for a man, a desire to share something? Yes!

And what kind of state does a woman create, lead a discussion or an intellectual conversation? That's right: the feeling that we are colleagues or friends.

And then Maria Sergeyevna came on a date and began a small talk. The first hour was talked about traveling, the second - about business, the third - about modern mores. And what is it? Maria Sergeyevna 50, and she is a decent woman. This let the youngsters kick asses, and Maria Sergeyevna works in a prosperous company and raised in a decent family, and it is not good for her to behave like an indecent girl.

And if a man does not run away after the first hour, he simply will not call after the first meeting. And why? Because it's boring!

Flirtation is expressed in speech, body language, voice, gait. This mood, the state of the game! It does not depend on age! I remember my grandmother, who, having lived to 89 years old, went to see her friends till the end of her days! At 85 she painted her lips, put on a dress and descended 3 stories down to her youngest, as she said, a knight (he was 72). They drank tea and laughed at the entire stairwell!

Flirt is beyond age! What do I see now? "Leo, I'm a grown woman, I'm already 40, I can not giggle and lick my lips, I'm not so educated, I want a serious relationship with a man." Remember: no flirting - no serious relationship!

If you are sitting on a date with a serious business person, then the man believes that this is a business relationship.

Thousands of girls in all parts of our vast homeland make the same absurd mistake! They are trying to turn on the charming mode only when a super-megamachiom appeared on the horizon, from which the scissors give way.

And they do not come out with anything! Or the man does not notice. Either she is all crookedly obtained. Or scary, so much so that it's not up to flirting. He passed by. You sighed and went out again for a few days. By the end of the week, a new one is on the horizon, and you, as always, are not ready.

And how to be ready? Always train!

Flirting is a game. To nothing non-binding game! If you are flirting, it does not mean that you are going to marry this guard at the cash register, to which you wink.