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RE: Spanking Children is an Unconscious Act of Vengeance
This is such a load of crap, there is nothing whatsoever wrong with spanking, not assaulting, spanking your child. History of the past 50 years has shown that. Kids nowadays have are in comolete disregard and dont have respect or work ethic. Nothing wrong with spanking snd its people like the author of this post that has those children that are out of control running around public restaurants and such that laters flynks out of school or whatever. Just my outlook on it. You didnt see kids 30 years ago backtslking their parents and other figures of authority. Just sayin
Hello, I appreciate your perspective, but I highly disagree.
I want to encourage you to look at some of the facts about spanking to help augment your position. You made the claim that kids nowadays don't have respect or work ethic. By this, I assume you mean that a lot of children aren't spanked and so they run around wild and crazy and become losers? If that is the case, I have bad news for you. The current statistics on spanking suggest that most parents still spank. Roughly 60% to 90% of parents spank their children. Therefore, what does that say about the kids who "don't mind" and run around causing problems? It probably means their parents hit them...and hit them often.
Here is a link to an older article I wrote with the spanking facts; I hope it helps:
https://psychologic-anarchist.com/2016/05/16/i-was-spanked-and-i-turned-out-ok-or-did-i/
Well i woukd argue 80-90% of parents my wife and i are friends wirh dont and their kids are well on their way to becoming losers. However looking back to the zo called "good old days" wouldnt you say nearly everyone got spanked this previousprevious generation and seem, to me anyways, much more productive, disciplined, respectful? I dont think their is a wrong way, just a different way, dont you agree? Im not saying beat yiur child or leave bruises, but spanking isnt a horrible way to go about raising a child. There are scenarios where either words just dont cut it, or arent enough. Kids are well aware of the midern day way of doing things and use that to their advantages a lot of the time i have come to figure from observation
Is it a result of not spanking or lack of guidance/neglect?
Spanking is guidance like rape is lovemaking
Spanking is guidance