Three basic habits of poverty

in #psychology7 years ago

1. Self-pity. If a person is attuned to poverty, he will feel sorry for himself, blame others, complain about fate, say, she is not supportive of him and it is not written to be rich in kind. Someone pities themselves for being born at the wrong time and place, regrets that they were born of the wrong sex, not with that eye color and big nose, not the skin color - in general, reasons for pity can be found a lot if want. And such people just do that they are looking for these reasons, they are focused on feeling sorry for themselves.

How will people act and what will people think about a person who is always feeling sorry for himself? And regrets because of a trifling fact, focuses on this fact? That is, of course, he does not understand that this fact is trifling, for some it is already a necessity, the meaning of life.

  

The right way to stay poor is to self-reliance. Do you think this habit will help you to find wealth and success? Most likely, no, a lot of time and energy goes away, in order to regret your beloved. The work of such a person will always be low-paid, and the existence will be miserable.

2. Greed is also a habit of the poor. Running around in stores searching for price tags screaming "Discount!", The desire to buy something for free, for nothing, having spent a lot of time and nerves, exhausting themselves and others with a painful choice of things is cheaper - that's just a small list of signs of a poor person.

  

The desire to save is a sign of no mind, let alone wisdom, this is the desire to justify yourself and your way of life. It's easier to say proudly about myself: "I'm frugal!" Than trying to find the reason for saving. The reason is really very simple, there is no money. No money - you have to save everything. Of course, you need to save money, but only do it not to the detriment of yourself and not to the detriment of your relatives, the savings should be reasonable.

If you are ready to become rich, to program yourself for riches, you need to struggle with greed and excessive economy, you need to clearly understand that the product that you really need is worth exactly as much as the seller asks for it.

3. Doing things that you can not stand. Successful and wealthy people do things that they love, of course, they also do unpleasant things, but about this in another article. So, the habit of poor people is to do things that they can not tolerate, but which bring them money. Vasya all his life dreamed of working as an autoelectrician, he can with closed eyes and to the touch determine the malfunction of the car wiring, but he works in a flower shop, sells flowers, from which he has allergies. He does not even try to change his job, when friends tell him about it, he answers only one thing: "They pay here."

To get rid of this habit you need to understand what you really need, what you want to do. First you can try to find a job that at least did not irritate you, and then gradually look for a job that would bring joy and satisfy you completely.


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