we can not really learn from another persons experience
we can take note and watch for similar patterns
remembering a story is a kind of belief
if it is a loosely held flexible temporary belief to be tested - then it is perfect

If it is belief that has been anchored with emotions of fear or fear of missing out, then it is a micro trauma
We share our fears, so it is actually kind of a virus.
enough people get infected and pretty soon they want to control everyone else.

When we re shape our habitat so that we can no longer harvest from nature but most go through middle men who have nothing to offer but low quality addictive garbage....that may take centuries more to unwind peacefully.

anyhow, we learn best directly through playing with real world forces, (things we can feel and understand) and paying attention to our bodies rather than our non-sense.