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Hello my dear, today I will be premiering a new section dedicated to issues related to human behavior, psychology is still one of the most unexplored fields of science due to the unique realities of each individual, today we will deal with the egocentric personality, sure we have met with individuals with similar behaviors or even ourselves have a personality of this type.

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One of the indications of an egocentric personality is a series of behaviors that are associated with almost identical patterns of behavior such as bad humor, arrogance, exhibitionism or ambition to cite some of these social behaviors.
It is probable that in some occasions we have some of these behaviors, but this does not mean that in general we have a defined behavior, we can only determine when these behaviors are constant and sustained.

Let's enumerate some forms in the traits in order to pinpoint the egocentric personality.

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The origin can be found above all in people who have had little affective family experiences on the part of parents, who feed the behavior from child oriented to that is the center of attention, feeding their desires for greatness. This brings as a consequence that an adult stage generates acts without measuring in the least its.

excess of self-esteem

This is one of the most important features of the egocentric personality, that need to be respected and recognized by the social group, it is easy to observe an excessive self-esteem. While other individuals have a totally different vision because of the inappropriate behavior of the person. While internally they feel insecure and full of fears for the image that others have.

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False self-confidence

As a result of excessive self-esteem, self-confidence arises in the individual due to emotional instability, while maintaining in the eyes of others a rude and very confident attitude, is a natural defense mechanism. It has, in a way, a theatricality to transmit that it has a great self-esteem when in fact they lack it.

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Feelings of greatness

One of the main mistakes of egocentric people is to come to think that they have talents that others do not have, which places them above other individuals, and thinks that their problems can be solved by third parties who have a lot of prestige.

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Ambition

From his airs of greatness is born his ambition, to create a fictitious reality that only rounds in his mind where the individual is the winner who possesses much power and is successful in the matter of love and sex. This brings them serious problems of facing work challenges and finishing projects that never end, blaming third parties for their failure.

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Distortion of reality

Consequently, from the other acts a parallel reality arises where there is only happiness and pride in its airs of grandiosity, setting aside all those people who question it only to maintain its status of perfect person.

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Hypersensitivity to other people's evaluation

And since you don't feel overwhelmed when other people point out your self-centered behavior, if you feel offended with the slightest critical remark, no one has the authority to point out any error of an egocentric person, which makes the person very susceptible and ends up arguing with someone strongly for daring to criticize his personality. It is like a shield that allows him to repudiate all those who try to undermine his personal life.

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Exhibitionism

It is incredible how a person who radiates a negative atmosphere thinks that his attitudes give him prestige, his thirst to feel flattered and admired is amazing, this is very remarkable when these individuals are in public positions where they can have abundant admiration and attention.

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And in the end the person feels empty, without friends and alone, although like every human has to coexist with others and no doubt has to socialize with others. This is present in any human behavior, without socialization there is no behavior, the behaviors are an inherent part of us the point is how we should socialize to maintain the best relationships with others.

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