How to understand that your soul is exhausted and how to fix it

in #psychology6 years ago

Do you know the feeling when you wake up and do not want to get out of bed? Or when you are overwhelmed by a huge load of fatigue, despite the fact that the day has just begun? In this case, it seems to you that nothing is able to please you and as if you have forgotten how to like the usual things.

It is these signs that indicate that you are in dire need of fresh energy and proper rest. Or rather not you, but your soul. Unlike physical fatigue, spiritual exhaustion is not so noticeable. Day after day we spend in work, various worries, etc. Depending on the situation, we hide under different masks, pretending that everything is in order. But deep down we know that everything is beginning to crumble. And it needs to be corrected.

You can sleep 8 hours a day, you can be successful both at work and in school. But all this can not guarantee you that your soul does not experience a deep decline.

What really determines your spiritual state is how you feel every day when you get out of bed.

Rub an ode palm on the other. Continue doing this for 30 seconds to create electrical energy.

Now slowly begin to separate them until you no longer feel the flow of energy between the palms.

If you do not feel the presence of energy, or if your hands stop before they reach the width of the shoulders, this may be a sign that you are experiencing spiritual exhaustion.

Here are a few things that could cause the current state:
You deceived yourself;

  • you did not love yourself;
  • you were often inconvenient to say "no";
  • you constantly lack something;
  • you did something for the sake of clearly undeveloped goals;
  • you are haunted by the ghosts of the past;
  • you can not motivate yourself;
  • you often took part in meaningless conversations and gossip;
  • you surrounded yourself with people who are not able to give you a positive impulse.

Below we describe a few more specific reasons that could cause spiritual fatigue.

There is such a statement that in order to understand someone, you just need to evaluate its surrounding atmosphere. People who are close to us have a huge impact on our lives, and sometimes we underestimate it. Believe that each of these people can one day break you, or exalt.

The circle of friends is often formed chaotically, like our habits. So pay close attention to this aspect of your life. Let and not to a significant extent, but the circle of communication can predetermine your destiny.

Most of us do not even pay any attention to these questions. We think that everything will work out. It's only a matter of time. But it passes day after day, but it does not happen. And the worst thing is that we get used to this state. Ignorance of some small things can also lead to serious problems: depression, mental illness, social anxiety and many other psychological and sociological problems. At the initial stage, all this is not so scary. But in the long term, these problems can change you at the root.

Never become a victim of the image of your life. Do not give in to poverty and a sense of inferiority. This is really important. You deserve happiness and all that is already known to man.

If you notice that one of the things described above can be compared with you, then you must take measures for your own healing:

"Start meditating." This will bring you peace and allow you to better know yourself. You yourself will be surprised how many interesting and unexpected you can discover for yourself by looking inside your own consciousness.

  • Add more art to your life. It can be anything: dancing, literature, painting, music, and much more. Just find a way to express your feelings with the help of certain things. Open and free.

  • Love yourself. This can be the most difficult item for every person. But this is a very important point. Respect yourself with respect, so that others can see it. Do not settle for less. You deserve everything amazing.

  • Speak properly and treat yourself well. Remember that your best friend and critic is yourself. On the path of life, you will encounter different obstacles and someday you will be defeated. This is normal. But it is not normal to humiliate yourself and complain. Do not expect someone to give you a helping hand. Be strong and go ahead. Wake up every morning with a sense of purpose and value your own efforts. These little things are of great importance.

  • Update your aura. By the law of the universe, you get what you send. Try to attract positive energy. When you are a bright and positive person, people will go to you with the same emotions.

Do what brings you happiness. Look at the clouds. Walk in the park. Buy yourself a coloring in the end. Help the needy. Discover new literature or start writing something yourself. Do something that will bring you happiness, but make sure that you do not harm anyone in the process of all this.

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