I wonder, do Amish have a Crime problem in the least, do they have an abusive parent problem in the least? even only verbally abusive? You say that we all grow up on the same planet, but why not make it "we all grow up in the same universe" or multiverse, it's all rather missing the point because the point would be missed at the moment you mitigate the numerous, or innumerable environmental influences, to "we all grew up on the same planet" as there is hardly a difference between one place on the planet and the billions of others that people inhabit.