Victim or victor

VICTIM OR VICTOR?

There are just two choices in life. One, we can look at situations and say nothing is working out, life is not being fair, people are not realizing my worth, there is no support, there just isn't any time - et al. We can build a nice victim story out of these reasons and keep celebrating our pity party.

Or we can take charge of our life, focus on what we want and just keep finding ways to make it happen, regardless of obstacles, lack of acknowledgement or support, paucity of time etc.

Fact is, if we decide to seize our dreams and keep going no matter what, we will emerge triumphant. No question. And if we decide to throw in the towel and moan - groan, then we are already defeated.

Victim? Or Victor? It's our choice.