@jaynie - I totally agree, agree to disagree if you don't see eye to eye with someone. Being in an interracial marriage in a small midwest town has shown me that people can get really disrespectful when they don't agree with your life choices. So I try hard not to be judgemental and to live and let live. And I agree with @jayna too about the hypocrisy in organized religion preaching love and forgiveness yet doing neither for people outside of their "beliefs".