Can poor boys have love?

In today's society, material possessions cover the sky, and houses and cars have become necessary conditions for marriage. Therefore, it is easy to fall in love, but not easy to get married. I saw an article a few days ago. A poor boy wrote a story. He said he would break up with his girlfriend who loves him wholeheartedly.

This boy comes from a poor family, but his college entrance examination score is the highest in the county. The family finally saw hope.

He went to school in the city, but felt very inferior because he had to study Mandarin, English and earn money in addition to class exams. In order to make money, he did everything, and half of the money he earned was used to pay for his tuition, and the other half was used by his family.

No one knows his suffering, except for her, a beautiful city girl with a superior family, who treats him better than anyone else. After the two fell in love, she took him home to visit his parents. Her family lived in a luxuriously decorated high-end duplex house. Her father asked him, "Can you save my daughter a little bit of suffering?" He did not answer.

But since then, he has the idea of ​​breaking up. He deliberately alienated her every day. After she passed the study abroad exam, he said to her: "Let's break up. I can't bear you and I suffer together."

At the end of the article, he confided from the bottom of his heart what he didn't say to her: "In ten years, I will go to you. If you are happy, I will not disturb you.

He loves his rich girlfriend deeply, but because of poverty, he wants to break up. He said in the article: "At the best age, you can't let the one you love fully enjoy life. A poor boy like me is not worthy of having love."

Obviously, a deep sense of inferiority brought him an unpleasant inner experience. In essence, people like to choose experiences that make them happy, and stay away from experiences that make them unpleasant.

Therefore, when his girlfriend's father asked him how to prevent his daughter from suffering, he knew that within ten years, even if he tried his best, he would not be able to reach his girlfriend's father's pass. He will continue to experience the unpleasant feelings of inferiority and shame.

We all know that not all people get in love are wonderful feelings, especially between two people with unequal family circumstances, one side will have a strong sense of inferiority. This kind of love, if you want to go on, may have to go through all kinds of painful tortures before you can reap the ultimate completion.