That makes perfect sense :-) We have those who care for us and those we care for, we cannot turn our backs on that. What I would maybe suggest is to think of life as a constantly unfolding thing, that where you are now is not necessarily your end destination; to perhaps take it a bit easier on yourself. When I think of my own experiences, I came to see that the places I fit the most were not always ones that I necessarily wanted to fit in, but only because I was not happy in myself, that it was only when I accepted myself that these places became my home. There are times when we can be the obstacle to our own procedural ease ;-)

Besides, I have come to think that we cannot avoid finding our place, it gravitates to us as we to it. When you look aroud the world at how many groups who celebrate things like Star Trek, Star Wars, Harry Potter for example. Their passion for the story brings them together in groups, to conventions. People who like sports or muisc or books are the same, they tend to find similar minded people. I supose what I'm saying here is that rather than look to other people and ask if we can fit them, we can look to ourselves, understand who we are and what we like and what we stand for. If we know where we fit in ourselves then we can have an idea what bigger picture we are part of.