RE: Let someone else fix it, I just want to enjoy life and have fun...
Thanks. Right, but also wrong.
"We are here to experience duality in all areas of our life."
... is pseudo-"spiritual" New Age bunk.
You are not here to experience all of everything. That's your belief that you choose to accept, to give meaning to what happens in life. Possibly, as some cosmic "order" to make "sense" of it all.
We don't need to experience everything. We can. But that's not why "we are here". There is no requirement to experience being raped, being murdered, being stolen from, being lied to. All of that CAN happen, but it's not why "we are here" to experience everything. I've heard this way too much from New Ager type of "thinkers", and I know why it's accepted as a "valid" thought about reality. I used to believe in much of the New Ager nonsense myself, and have broken away from the falsity by analyzing the "claims of reality" compared to actual reality.
As well of the New Age theory, that what you focus on, you will manifest So be sure not to focus on the negative, or anything of a dark nature.