Should you be friends with your ex?

Just be friends with your ex-lover in cases where both are intimate friends, have social relationships, friends or co-workers pretty much, long love and have faded.

Cases where you can make friends with your ex

Of course I have. But not every couple after separation can make you. Especially in the latter case, it's best to cut off the relationship:

• A bitter love, break up because of violence, because of cheating and betrayal. You know, all those factors are unacceptable in friendship.

• An unfinished affair, the family objected, circumstances do not allow and also can not pass. Now the two of you keep the friendship only for both of them, because love is still and the two of you are not strong enough to overcome anything, including the end of love to be friends.

Love wiggle, break up because one of them has to go far and then come back when the other person has a new one. What are you doing here?

• Farewell is not nice. Of course, this case does not need to say that you can not make friends.

You can maintain friendships if:

• Previously both friends are close friends, social relations, friends or colleagues are quite common but love each other is not appropriate, perhaps should "reset" the relationship is over.

• Love is long and has faded, but the two of you still think well of each other and break up smoothly, friends can maintain.

• Disagreements about lifestyle, the point of marriage and family building should break up, you two can still be friends if the good parting.

In the heart of each one, there is still a bit of love and a bit of suffering, the continuation of the relationship and the continuation of the meeting is not simply a matter of recalling. Name for the relationship. Both need to define how friends are different from love and need to share frank views with one another. The following problems certainly can not survive when you are no longer the love of each other:

• Sex: No and absolutely not!

• Contact and phone: Do not call text messaging, especially not contact when sad or remember late night night.

• Do not let your "in relationship with ..." or "it's complicated" relationship with your ex (on Facebook).

• Do not use each other's belongings: What the other person you are holding should be paid immediately and always, in addition to restricting the use of gifts or souvenirs given to the other person at the beginning, especially when meeting. .

Give up on thinking and possessing habits, and also try not to intervene or give opinions on the decision of the other person.

• Do not make private appointments and especially do not travel privately together.

• Do not use words or sensitive gestures to tease each other directly