Let me tell a little story i heard long time ago it was a man who has nothing but a horse and live from it.People start talking about him how poor he was ,he said "perhaps,perhaps not" later on his horse lost and people start to talk again saying he will die cuz he was living by his horse work ,he said again "perhaps ,perhaps not"after few days he find his horse with a bunch of other horses so he build and build a pharm and start to live like a boss people start to talk again saying how lucky he was ,he said again"perhaps, perhaps not"couple of years later he married and have a son his son falls from horse and got so injured that he can't walk so pople start to talk again saying how unlucky he was he said again "Let me tell a little story i heard long time ago it was a man who has nothing but a horse and live from it.People start talking about him how poor he was ,he said "perhaps,perhaps not" later on his horse lost and people start to talk again saying he will die cuz he was living by his horse work ,he said again "perhaps ,perhaps not"after few days he find his horse with a bunch of other horses so he build and build a pharm and start to live like a boss people start to talk again saying how lucky he was ,he said again"perhaps, perhaps not"couple of years later he married and have a son his son falls from horse and got so injured that he can't walk so pople start to talk again saying how unlucky he was he said again"perhaps ,perhaps not" couple years later world word two have started so all people with mature age had to go to war except his son and the most of them died in war.Morale of the story "Life have two sides just like Coin"