Thanks for stopping by! I find it better to show the love in this particular order: 1. Cake (so they don't know we're trying to get them drunk) 2. Rum (Because we are trying to get them drunk) 3. Hugs (What tipsy fool doesn't love a hug?) Hugging first looks like we're trying too hard, though. (We are trying too hard, but they don't need to know that.)Let me know how it goes with the in-laws!