When you hold a significant other in your mind to a standard of my true love and always expect the same back, you feel let down. Your mind has a big role to play in why you feel that "rope" she gave you something that made you feel loved, something everyone wants and maybe it wasn't her conscious intentions, but she wasn't holding the same expectation for you..but that's okay. Let your mind be silent and enjoy YOUR life and remember when life seems to give you sadness, it's just the universe making room for something better in your life.