If you do change your mind, never let anyone else change it. You yourself are the only one who you should change your mind for.
Because honestly, I never asked to be born. If I had the chance to choose, I would never choose life.
Like coming from my mouth. I'm sure my mom didn't want to hear when I said this to her long ago. But then again that's a risk every parent has to take. That a parent ends up being blamed by their children. Being a parent is selfish. I should know. I'm a parent.
I agree with everything that you said. So great that you are aware of these things as a parent. Most will just guilt trip their kids and would say "I brought you into this world so you should be grateful!" like you owe them...