Here, the "real" link: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2007/05/the-kingdom-in-the-closet/305774/

and who knows if your father is your REAL father.

See, this is a big part of the problem. There seems to be no golden rule/categoric imperative in Islam as there is in pretty much any other culture: Always treat others the way you want to be treated. Or the inversion: never do anything to others that you don't want to be done to you.

Even if my father was someone else than I think - what difference does that make for me please? Am I worth less as a person with that "stigma"?

In my culture (and in pretty much any other) the rule is: Everyone counts the same and has the same rights and obligations. Not matter their background, their gender, their religion.

That is seems not to be a thing where you live. You draw a difference, put people in categories depending on aspects beyond their control and then you treat them accordingly.

Just look at this. That's soo despicable. I can hardly believe, something like that really exists. And if there weren't burka wearing immigrant women these days on our streets, I'd have a hard time to accept this pre-civilizational concept as part of the global reality as well. How can that still be necessary in some cultures?

Contrary to what you probably get told, there are usually no rape issues, even if people see each other naked and/or if there is a mass gathering. Otherwise nude beaches wouldn't be a thing. But when you look at the immigration patterns an correlate that with the rape statistics, you will find a strong correlation with Muslim immigration. Al Tarrarush Gamea is a term we learned after Cologne two years ago. Before that, it was only another one of those unbelievable and literally jar-dropping Arab "traditions".

I could go on bitching here, but what is that good for? We have serious problems and it's crystal clear that they have a lot to do with the Islamic faith in its Arab/Saudi interpretation.

You should really work on that - or at one point others will do that for you.