Thanks for this post, I absolutely agree with you. I try to avoid that type of people and got rid of all so called friends that are like that. And that makes my life way more positive, with friends i can rely on. About Steemit community , in the beginning i thought it's a great project, but going through piles of meaningless posts that have so much upvotes i realised, that at the moment, it's not promising at all.
It is what we make it and where it goes from here is also somewhat up to each of us.