Life only throws at you something she thinks you can handle, it's up to you if you raise up to the challenge or whine about it. You are never in control of your life, because life is just that, an uncontrollable series of events that can either be good or bad
I tend to agree for the most part. Victim mentality doesn't really go very far with me. We all have to find a way to make peace with ourselves.
You can spend your whole life with victim mentality, in the end it's not going to give you anything!
I make peace with myself by giving 110% of me into whatever i'm doing