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RE: Losing influence and gaining control
but we can control how long we let it hang around.
Being able to reduce the time it affects us from doing what we should is a skill that can be developed. Some "get over it" quickly, others hang on forever.
True. Attitude's are a lot like forgiveness. We can't control getting hurt but we can control how long it takes us to forgive. It goes against human nature and requires a lot of inner strength and faith in the healing power of forgiveness but bitterness serves no good purpose and often causes health problems.