Focused on the future, or in other words, responsible.

One of the hardest things for young adults to do now, is learning to be responsible. Responsibility is not doing what is expected, its understanding the things we want in life are rare and hard to get, (i.e. A nice house, a good job where there is meaning, a good relationship, and good children.) These seem to not be a lot to ask for, but in truth, they are ever more out of reach. Just ask your friends if they are lacking something in their life, and he or she can go on for a long time. Reaponsibility is a mindset. I like to call my mindset, reaponsible dreaming. Dreams that feel within reach can be explained from step one. Having unresponsible dreams can elude your mind from what is really important, and that is to unseratand how much dreams your mind can handle and also how it can achieve them.