GOOD SEX OR NAH?..

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Good sex keeps a relationship going and could be regarded as a major wind during its smooth sailing but what is regarded as good sex

Quizzed by that I ventured out to ask a couple of friends, well I came to one conclusion good sex is only reached when both parties hit a satisfied status at the end of it. It’s never achieved by jumping in the sack for selfish reasons and most definitely it is never achieved if you don't take a moment to understand your partner. Men have the habit of just trying to plough through till they reach orgasm, most spend to much time trying to live a fantasy or reenact a couple of scenes from a porn flick (porn actors are basically paid professionals following a script to entertain an audience) so while it may seem like they enjoy being put in certain position, well they have to smile for the camera.

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So where does that leave we ordinary people seeking a pleasurable moment? Well it leaves us as a juncture of knowing it’s a give an take flick. What's worse than bad sex? Oh having a partner that seems to always want more and more at an inconsiderate level. It becomes worse if your attempts to make certain demands fall on deaf ears therefore you automatically put a strain on your relationship without even knowing.

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Well for every problem, solutions are bound to surface. First off it is important to learn to dialogue about things and not just stay mute, dialogue helps a lot. Talking to your partner about your likes and dislikes helps to narrow it down. Are there something's you like or don't like to hear during sex? Talk about it, are there positions you like to be put or don't like finding yourself? well talk about it, is there a time duration you like to keep well still talk about it.

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You should learn to work it out what you are unaware of is you could end up putting yourself or your partner in a vulnerable situation thus cheating creeps in. No one is an island and possibly can know it all so be eager to learn and most of all be more understanding towards the needs of your partner and trust me, it only gets better.