This is very true, @tarazkp. I think it's like this...I'm not very good in X field (say computers, I'm not very good at IT stuff). And since we mostly build friendships over shared interests, it's unlikely that I will become friends with a lot of computer-savvy people (unless, of course, we share other interests, but say we don't). and since I don't have any friends who are good with computers, my only choice - if I have a computer problem - is to ask around the people I like and admire, aka my friends, because I trust them in other areas of my life. And I will take their advice on my computer problem.

But you're right, I shouldn't do that and I should

take everything anyone says with a pinch of salt.

Really enjoyed your post.Thanks!