Life Literally Is All About "Perception" Not "Perfection"..!!

OK, first let me elaborate the meaning of the two terms - "Perception" and "Perfection."

Perception - We all have senses given by the Almighty through which we can see, hear, and become mindful of something that happens. So, "Perception" refers to the potential an individual possesses with which he can be informed of something with the help of the senses.

Perfection - "Perfection" as the name itself suggests demands for everything and everybody to be flawless and full of excellence. But when we see in real life, there is no such word as being perfect. Being absolute perfect is a myth and the fact cannot be denied.

Perception refers to our way of looking towards things. We'll proceed in the direction our mind takes us to. If we'll think positive, favorable things will happen to us. Talking about the other side, if we'll think negative, the outcomes will come accordingly.

If a person runs towards being perfect, he'll lose at even the little things he is quite good at. So, instead of racing for perfection, an individual should work on how excellently he can work so that it looks perfect even when it not.

Now, below are some points that will help you change your perception towards life and will also help you in adding a meaning to it.

Finding Lover? Be Your Own Lover And Galvanize People For The Same

If a person cannot love himself, then how can he love any other person that passionately? For one to live life from first to last, the first and leading way is to love himself thoroughly. One should love himself in the way others get inspired too. Loving oneself is necessary for mental, physical, and also for the spiritual growth. The more one love himself, the more he extends towards considerable growth. Once, one understands what self-love really means, he'll then live a life more willing and satisfying. And also, if one will love himself, others will too love him and respect him to the core.

Open Your Ears For All And Listen To The Sounds Of A Painful Soul

Many people these days are found to be choosy, reserved and selective. They hear only those who mean to them or hear only that stuff which is of some importance to them. So, the people should realize the importance of being a good listener. What people do is, they search for the answers in defend without listening to the other completely. Isn't it? Just like yoga and meditation, listening others is also an exercise which needs to be mastered in order to be attentive, entirely present at the moment and also to give proper respect to the speaker.

People say to only those they realize will listen. So, if someone is going through something or whatever, and if he comes to you and tells his story or ask for help or just ask for some sympathy words, you should definitely give. Because that doesn't cost you anything. Being a good ear to somebody can help us too in many ways.

Explore And Go For New Opportunities Each Day Rather Than Sticking To The Same Routine

People say that consistency is the key to success. And I am not saying "No." Yes, it is. People should be consistent and also be regular. But that does not mean they should stick themselves in their routine life. Being consistent means not sitting idle and looking for ideal opportunities to explore each day. Doing something new and creative each day. Helping someone's way out in any form each day. Feeling some sort of inner outgrowth with your efforts each day. And this is my definition of being "Consistent."

Always Be Eager To Know Things In Deep Rather Than Fully Believing What Others Say

We never realize that the things that come to us can be fully wrong or partially wrong. We are lazy enough to get into the deep roots of the news, isn't it? So, we believe firmly what is said to us, what is heard by us, or what is seen by our eyes. But, sometimes the things are not the way they look like. Sometimes, things are different than what we hear, see, feel, and believe. So, it is quite important for us to be eager to know things deep in roots and explore fully ourselves. We should question everything, from where it came, what was the motive, what was the solution, the conclusion or any other question in relation to the topic.

Do Not Ever Go For Shortcuts, Eliminate The Problems From The Roots

We, humans, are so desperate for everything that to make our way clear we can adopt as many shortcuts as we can. And at that time, we don't even realize that we are harming ourselves in the long run. If someday we fell sick, we take some medicines from the home itself thinking that we'll recover and there is no need to go to a doctor. We may get cured for the moment but it is not good for us in the long run. Because we here are not eliminating the problems from the roots, instead we are adopting shortcuts. There are many cases in life emphasizing the same point. We should move ahead in life step by step rather than jumping at once and satisfying ourselves for a little time ignoring the consequences of the future.

Be A 21st Century Man/Woman, Try To Run Parallel To The World

There are still some people existing in the world and nearby who does not quit the existing way of thinking and create nuisance regarding the modernization and developed thoughts of the people. People need to realize that in order to live in the society, in the nation and in the world full of innovations, opportunities, challenges, and competitions, they must indulge in the habits and efforts to run parallel to the world going fast at an unbelieving level.

For people, to run parallel, change acceptance becomes a necessity. There are many people who do not let change rule their life and they die cursing the change. Change is actually good. The change means a person is giving himself a polish line. The change means you know how to live your life with your own mindset rather than getting manipulated. The change means that you are flexible enough to accept things no matter how they come, good or bad. The one who is capable of embracing changes is capable of running side by side to the world, and also developing himself side by side.

Do Not Take Life And Problems As Burdensome, Realize That We Cannot Be Always Happy And Always Sad

Sometimes life gets so hard on us that we think of quitting it all and go to a place where nobody knows us. Isn't it true? It happens with all of us. Happened with me too, many times in my life. But as far as I am now, I realize that problems never leave our way. In fact, when we come out of one, the other is already waiting for us at the door. So, I made up my mind in the way that if things love to work this way, let them be. Nothing will help on being stressed out or focusing on the problem. Because if life was that easy, why would we all struggle hard with everything and everyone?

Life is never easy, it never was and it never will. We have to deal with the hard life without considering it as hard. It is we who need to change. It is we who need to understand that our task is to remain happy and keep others happy. Happiness and sadness as we all know come in pairs. We cannot be always happy and always sad. Things change and they change for good. Every change comes with a reason. And we get the reason, if not soon anytime later.

At last, I would just love to say that what matters most is our perception towards life, how we look at things and how we have planned a life ahead. Running after perfection sucks you completely. Stop doing that. Stop living a life that others found impressive. It is your life. Make your own rules and follow them. Do not leave a chance to regret. Learn from your past mistakes. Always heal your soul and never be so obsessed with the materialistic things.

If someday, in spite of your continuous efforts, life does not seem sorted out even a little, then leave it for some time. Go and help others. Heal someone else's soul. Try to make someone else happy and satisfied. I personally believe things work a lot this way. Helping others have cleared my way many times and are my happiness mantra. Go, give love, take love, spread love, and only love.

Hope you all enjoyed the post..

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