Transformation of Hate into Love. How to heal this destructive feeling

Do not look for love outside
Do not expect that people will live for you. Do not expect someone to love you.

Nobody do not have to love you. But you can generate this wonderful feeling by yourself.

For this you just need to love yourself. And then love will radiate from you, it will pour out around you from everywhere.

Accept the state when you are NOT looking for someone who will fill you with love, and you are the source of this feeling. Over time, and claims to others will disappear themselves.

If you have a childhood trauma, contact your inner child.

Talk to him heart to heart, reassure him - yourself as a child, give your love, fill the stricken child with love.

Situation from the position of the soul
Troubles are given in order to pay attention to something meaningful for you, so that you focus on yourself, not on the outside.

Tehe result depend from the way you react, what you do.

Perhaps it is by their attitude towards you that the soul of the close person provokes you to search for love in yourself.

So that you do not wait for someone to fall in love with you, but youhave learned to love yourself, have learned to give yourself love.

People act out roles in order to develop new necessary qualities.

When close people infringe on you, they do not do this to you, they do it for YOU.

Because this is the only way to open your eyes to the fact that you do not love yourself. So that you finally do something, something in life is changed for the better.

They filled themselves with love and began to live better.

In the most painful situations, our strength lies. Having decided the situation, a person takes this vital force.

The offender's soul is just a guide to this force, an activator, if you want.

Through causing pain, through your manifestation of feelings of hatred and resentment, it highlights where the hidden treasure is your power.

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How to heal hate through self-love

Our being determines our reactions. Reaction is unconscious behavior.

If you react like a machine, negative emotions prevent you from passing through the flow of unconditional love through you.

If you are in a difficult situation, then you have the strength to overcome it. People always have difficulties in coping with them.

It is in your power to interrupt the chain when you are acting, as well as the example of your parents.

You have embarked on the path of knowing yourself, on the path of healing from hatred.

In your power to transform it into a feeling of love and bring your life to a higher level.

If now you have hatred in the balance of the balance, you can transfer these cups to the other side, where love is.

Things on wich you pay more attention grow more. The wolf that you feed is the winner.

If you think of hatred for someone, then the balance of the balance will outweigh the hate.

If your attention is focused on taking care of yourself, and you fill yourself with love, the cup of love will outweigh.

Do not rate people that someone is bad, focus on the reason why you do not like something and offer solutions.
Empower people, pay attention to what a person did positive, unusual to him earlier. By empowering others, you become stronger yourself.
Make up an algorithm for your actions in case of destructive emotions. If there is awareness, then you understand how such moments manifest in your life.
You are able to catch when you are on the verge of failure, and act on the previously prescribed algorithm.

From the first try it does not work out, but if you repeatedly play the necessary script, you prescribe these actions on the subconsciousness to automaticity

To be continued...