Just accept

originally published on: The Daily Raita

We all have sometimes in our lives were everything goes well and suddenly things start to change. This can get pretty harsh. Sometimes it is difficult to let go of things which occur in your life. Is there a remedy for these kinds of things?  

Shit happens    

First of all, before we start digging into this subject, have a short introduction. I call this introduction: Shit happens. Life is so interesting. Both in good and bad ways. Today I want to talk about the shit side of life.  

Have you ever been so comfortable with everything you have at the moment. You feel like everything is going okay and suddenly life decided that it has other things for you. Did you ever had this in your life? Maybe you are in such a situation right now. Either way, everybody must have had these kinds of situation in their life.  

This is how life is. This is what I have learned. Shit happens. When you are trying everything you have to achieve what you want, shit will happen. If you want a life in which you are secure every day, than you might be rethinking whether you want to be successful. It is the art to be able to deal with these kinds of situations. 

I have had some tough experiences which are personal to me. I have had times were shit just happened and I could not deal with it. I missed something. I missed a mindset which could help me learn from what happened and better my plan to become a success the next time. In this post, I will exactly explain how you can get through life when life decides that you need some difficulties.  

Accept

The first and the most difficult one is to accept the things which have been happening. Now this is not easy. Imagine that you have been doing something for years and it went well for years and suddenly it collapses. You will feel lost and ask: "Why did this happen to me?"I can tell you that this is the worst question you can ask yourself.

Do you really think you are the only one who is struggling with something? Everybody around the globe is struggling with something. Don't ask why it happened to you, instead ask yourself what you can do in order to make this event never occur again.

If you ask yourself why it had happened to you, then you will be complaining and complaining really makes your life even more miserable. Try to comfort yourself. I mean it is not the end of the world. You can breathe, you are healthy and you have money. So no complaining, but asking yourself what you did wrong and do not do it the next time. Just accept the way it went and keep going.  

Talk about it

One of the most effective ways to keep going, even if life gets tough, is by talking with a good friend or family member about what has happened. We are human and we all need to talk with somebody about our problems or what we went through. If you keep things inside you, you will become mentally tired and that is not what you want.  

Instead of letting this happen, think about you and decide that it is better to talk with somebody about the problems you have. This person needs to be somebody you really trust and gives you some serious advice.   

When you talk with somebody, you will take what you feel and get rid of it. It can do so much good to talk with somebody. You just need the right person to talk with. Talking will help you get over things and start seeing the path that you still need to walk in order to achieve your goal. Keep walking and talking.  

Let it go

For me, it has always been difficult to let things go. Especially if I liked something so badly. The thing I have learned is to sometimes let things go because sometimes we can't imagine our lives without something. The reason why we think that way is because we always look at things negatively. Think about the bright side of when you let go of something. If something gets toxic in your life, you need to get it out of your life. It does not matter what somebody has to say about the choices you make. Then don't know you. 

Accept and let go of things. These are skills you need in order to grow. It can be hard, I know a lot about letting go, but it is worth it. If you have done everything you can do than spend no more time to that one thing. There are so many things that you still need to achieve. Let go and keep walking on the path you chose to walk.  

Conclusion

Let's have a quick recap. Sometimes in life when everything goes great you will lose somethings and it can hurt you. The first thing that comes to the human mind is: "Why did this happen to me?" That is the wrong question. You need to ask what can I do in order to never let this happen again. Sometimes life will teach you about how to let go of things. Go with the flow never change your goals, just change the plan. Let go and accept it. Always keep walking towards your goal.   

Hope you enjoyed this post!