Sometimes it feels like getting praises for being selfish
<3 You have to experience that thought to truly understand the effects.
I am glad you are finding what works your heartstrings. I wish more people understood this. So many are stuck just seeing one side of everything, they miss the full experience.
I think most assume you can only help financially or have a problem with helping financially... Money is a huge factor in some people's life. I am just being human how I know to be :)