A friend in need is a friend indeed (Kindly comment your suggestions)

in #parenting6 years ago (edited)

So here's a story of my best friend. Let's name her as Mary. I have know my best friend for over 9 years already. I have known her for her patience and putting herself out of trouble. She's a woman of 3 kids with different fathers. Wait, before you think about judging her, listen to the story first. Each kid has a story.

The first child is a girl, 17 years old. She is at her college year already. Her father was a Seaman. His relationship with my best friend didn't end up well. I didn't know his story much but, he cheated.

The second child is a boy, 11 years old His father was a musician, a lead guitarist and a vocalist of a band. He was a little bit of a free man. Sad to say, when he was starting to change his life, he died. When the Father died, the kid never was never acknowledged by his Grandmother and his Father's family.

The third child is a boy and he's 4 years old. His father is an OFW in a Middle East country. Although he's trying his best to provide a good living for his family, there are still secrets that are yet to be discussed between them.

The problem is, this second child. This father's kid died when he was still 2 years old. He has never seen the family of his Father's side but he was still very well taken care of his Mom and his Mom's family. He was sent to school to learn. Although he was provided with such attention by Mary, this kid is really out of his mind. He skipped school, gone for 3 days without Mary knowing, been into troubles and done pick-pocketing. Although he has done all this, Mary still has to be patient because she knows she'll be in trouble with the Department of Social Welfare and Development. But this kid did it again. This time she needed to spank him but he just cried. Maybe he thought his Mom would stop. Mary's heart was really painful looking at her son growing that way.

A little suggestion would be a big help.

Thank you and God bless!

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"You may take offense at your mother. But always remember: your mother is the only woman, who will love you in spite all your disadvantages."

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Hi @melanie0625, amazing post. Thank you for sharing :) hailloooo! :)

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frienship is most beautiful thing of the world

truly indeed! thanks 😉

Friend is always a friend :)

hailo, nice curation!

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I is very difficult to give advise in a situation like this one. The child is acting out, and some how his attention needs to be diverted, but how to do that only the mom will know, maybe a hobby, sport etc. something to occupy his mind

thank you for taking time to read. the mother already tried everything she has to... but the kid still sneaks out from their home... my friend is really stressed out.. another thing her eldest child the 17 year old got pregnant.. even myself don't think can handle what she has been through up until now... 😔

its not always easy raising children and we can do is our best. And the best you can do is support your friend with friendship as much as you can.

thank you... i always will.. it's just that it makes me cry every time she needs comfort and seeing her hurt that way makes me want to adopt her haha

The quote is very true,,, l like the quote.

thank you... it even touched my heart.. i miss my mom so bad already 😢

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