I understand the sentiment behind the idea that self-help books may not always be the most effective way to improve one's life. However, I believe that self-help books can still be incredibly valuable resources for personal growth and development. It all comes down to finding the right books that align with your goals and values and being open to the advice and strategies they offer.

Additionally, self-help books are not the only solution, it's also important to seek guidance from professionals, friends, and family, and to engage in self-reflection and personal experimentation to figure out what works best for you.

I also think that self-help books can be a great starting point to identify the areas you want to improve on before seeking professional help. Reading self-help books can be a good way to educate yourself on a particular subject and to start thinking about how to apply the knowledge to your own life.