It's only normal to be desperate when you realize someone you love so much is cheating especially when you are not it takes a lot of strength to give a stranger the job to get info from your partner's phone...People say it's wrong but they have never been in your shoes so they get to say that...my advice would be that you don't contact the wrong person or people...you want to get info? you want to be safe at the same time?... Get in touch with this guy ([email protected])