A Heads up to His Next Girl, His Heart is Too Fragile for His Own Good

He's pretty much perfect, I know. He's good looking, funny, and pretty damn smart too even if he doesn't show it.
He's got a heart of gold and soon you'll find out how genuinely sweet he can be with you. He'sd give you the shirt off his back and the shoes on his feet if he thought you needed them.

Honestly, there's probably not one soul out there who has a bad thing to say about him. His friends tell you he's amazing, his family thinks he's great. Hell, your family will think he's great.

He doesn't have a bad bone in his body, but I think that's his downfall. Because when he loves, he loves with his entire being, his entire heart belongs to that person.

So as you can imagine, he has a hard time getting over heartbreak when it happens.

You need to know this because his heart is tattered and torn in a way I can’t even begin to explain to you. He’s scared to love again. And I don’t know if you’ll be the one to change that, but I hope you are.

Maybe not even for him, but for you. So that maybe you will get why he does the things he does.

This girl he gave his heart to, before me even, she broke his heart. 'Break' may actually be too nice. She shattered his heart and walked away like he never mattered at all.

She strung him along for years. She would drop him and pick him up when it was convenient for her. She used him for her personal gain and left him when he was no longer useful to her.

He'll try and pretend like she's not on his mind, that she still doesn't have a hold on his heart... but we both know that's
not the case.

So good luck, girl. Good luck showing him he matters and that he deserves the world. She left him feeling unworthy of happiness and he has spent years trying to find it again.

He’s going to shut you out when you finally feel like you're getting somewhere. Be patient with him. I never mastered being calm when he’d disappear for a few days so that is my advice to you.

Learn to be calm and loving when you hear from him after days of radio silence.

He will still do anything in the world for you, but he will question your motives. He wants to trust you. He wants to believe you’re different, but she ruined his trust.

Before you get too carried away take a step back and make sure this is what you want because his heart can’t take another beating. He deserves to be loved and he deserves happiness and I truly hope that you are the one that he finds that with.

Honestly, from the bottom of my heart, good luck… and just protect him, okay?