EVERYONE CRAVE FOR SELF WORTH

in #nigeria8 years ago

Great Minds,
I see that no one enjoy being talked down. No matter how poorly you performed you will not want to be talked to unnecessarily. Everyone crave this self image and guard it with all the strength he or she can muster. It is this self value that makes one put an extra ounce to achieve a set goal and avoid being embarrassed. There are both pro and con when it comes to protecting self worth. It will either push you to work hard and earn more worth or it makes you put up an escapist mentality to avoid work such that you won't mess up and get talked down there making you feel worthless. Comparing to STEEMIT platform, self worth is more like reputation. You treasure it with a lot of caution and carefulness.

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HOW MUCH ARE YOU WORTH

generally, self worth grows just like steemit reputation, you start with 25 and grows. You grow when you work hard and create quality contents and gets your work upvoted or recommded by people with higher reputation.
Same goes with self worth, you earn it overtime with a lot of hard work and dedication. Also when you work is valued by a reputable person or organization, it gives you more confidence and boldness and consequently increased your value.

To grow your self worth, you will work hard to avoid unnecessary mistakes. It is here that lazy people rather play the blame game when they poorly performed or makes unnecessary errors that will see them as weak and worthless. So to still maintain and claim their worth, they shift blame.

In summary, the value of a man is dependent on his works, his output. His influence and impact on people around him. You are rated by your action so it does not mean how much you try to show you are relevant if it is not shown in your work, then you are still worthless. Therefore, while you crave for self value, it is important you give in your best in all you do and impact lives around you. Be at your best and make effort to avoid things that can pull you down. Such as dubious means of acquiring wealth and other evil or crooked way of doing things. These are things that feed on you self worth and shrink it until you become worthless.

On steemit, avoid plagiarism, and put in effort to create original and quality post. Don't be greedy and loose sight of what is right. Work hard, be consistent and patient and surely you will grow and people will value you even beyond your expectation..

The best self value is when people rate you valuable base on your work not that that you accord yourself. Not self pity, not fake confidence gained out of escapist mentality and pushing blame. The truth self worth is the result of dedication, focus and resilience. Always know that you are wonderful and special, don't doubt yourself just work to manifest it.
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Live sweet and enjoy

Thank you for reading

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