save himself

Only that person can save himself..But it doesnt mean if we see someone going through something,we don't offer our help.. Believe me the person who is going through hell may look rock resistant to all sorta external help from outside...but deep inside everybody,EVERYBODY,wants a shoulder to cry on,wants someone who can tell them that you are doing ok...All you need to do is break that person's nut.. make a little effort.. Don't give up on them.. They are still waiting for you to ask once more if they needed you to be with them for a while.