Good afternoon steemit lovers I would like to share and idea to y'all
Tips on how to dress decent and comfortable as a lady.
As women we have so much on our plates, between the demand of motherhood and the time constraints of our careers, that dressing in a way that makes us feel both easy, confident, and stylish seems like an unattainable goal. But it’s not.
Have you ever noticed that there are some woman who have a consistent quality about them that feels both effortless perfectly polished? You get the impression that the way they dress comes naturally and what feels impossible to you looks like an innate skill they posses.
For these women fashion has less to do with a hidden talent and is much more based on knowing what works for them and guidelines to follow.
If you want to learn how to be stylish and comfortable on your daily basis outfits, without changing our wardrobe entirely all the time.
Here is a little secret.
- DETERMINE HOW YOU WANT TO SHOW UP IN THE WORLD.
This is a very important Tip to follow.
We all know this saying, the way you dress is the way you would be addressed. The first sense of your style is to build your message, what does your message looks like, what and who does your message attract? Have this and know this. Think of this as your personal branding, an external package that shows who you are and highlight your strong qualities.
Begin by asking yourself how you would like to be perceived by people you Interact with, choose words that a vivid mental of the way you present yourself, like, smart, intelligent, sophisticated and brave.
Keep in mind weather you are conscious of not your style entails your message.
2.BE AUTHENTIC.
Be you. Always be you, if you know you don’t get comfortable on high hills, you know you can wear them but won’t be Comfortable on them, do not buy or wear them.
Go for what makes you comfortable and gives you confident on yourself.
I know of some people who wears hills to fit into occasions, but then do not have confidence to walk freely. They are scared they might loose a step, slip and fall.
Wear clothing that feels like YOU.
Not because it’s a trend or your friends wear them. If you are not sure on how you feel on something ask yourself this 3 questions?, Does this outfit feels comfortable or will I be adjusting it constantly?, Do I picture myself on this outfit or am i trying to be someone I’m not?, Does this clothing brings me joy and am I excited to wear it?, If you answer yes to all this questions then you are good to go but if no look for another option.
3.DO NOT PRIOTIZE FASHION OVER COMFORT.
As a lady who works for hours rendering services or whatever the case maybe, always opt for what feels the best. A woman who junggle in her career ontop of child rearing and family life can not be stuck into a cloth that sucks life out of her. The last thing we need to worry about is spending 8 hours work day in a dress that sucks life out of her no comfort zone or Jean that feels too restricting. Don’t feel it’s fashion and feel uncomfortable for the whole day. You loose.
4.DRAW INSPIRATION FROM WHO FIT YOUR MOLD.
Identifying your inspiration is helpful to work on your sense of style. Whether it is celebrities, Tv-characters, co-workers, neighbors or siblings make a list of individuals you view as consistently well dressed. Getting clear on who you look up to can help you identify what your preferences are as you build your unique personal style of your own.
This might be difficult as we try to emulate something new, but for the time being ignore the natural hesitation to step outside your comfort zone and Instead focus on what appeals you.
5.SHOPE YOUR SHAPE.
Understanding your body shape is a key piece in successfully achieving a great sense of your own personal style. When you know which cut and silhouettes works best for your body, you eliminate a lot of confusion around what to wear and unworn clothes.
One of the best style tips for women is learning how to master balance. If you hold more weight on your bottom the trick is to add more volume on your top(thick structure shoulders, jacket with breast pocket etc). If your bust or shoulders are bigger, concentrate on fooling the eye by creating visual balance by Increasing the weight of your lower half.(A line skirt, wide leg pants).
Ladies who dress with ease know exactly what flatters their body and what to avoid, always enhancing their best assets.
If you do not know your body shape do a research on the most common female body type.
6.DON’T FOCUS ON TRENDS.
Trends are things or items that gains overnight attention but doesn’t last, it has little staying power. Spending money on something that won’t be relevant for long. While we always suggest buying something if you truly can’t stop thinking about it, make sure you keep this purchases to a minimum and focus on the classic. Knowing and establishing your sense of style entails not getting disturbed by trends so that you won’t want to continuously changing your closet.
7.EXPERIMENT AND EXPLORE
It’s good we try out new things also, combination of fabrics to make a match, at least once awhile.
